Herpes Transmission, Answering the Common Questions
Herpes is spreads through direct skin on skin contact. Unlike the flu virus that is spreadable through the air the herpes virus is spread only through direct contact from the site of the herpes infection to the site of the other person’s skin contact with the infection point.
For an example, if you have a cold sore and you kiss someone you’re possibly transferring the virus to their mouth. The same goes for genital herpes and you have either anal or vaginal intercourse. The other spread way is, say you have a cold sore and you give oral sex to your partner you can then spread the herpes virus to their genitals. ANY infected skin to unaffected skin contact can spread the virus.
When Is Herpes Most Likely To Be Spread?
The herpes virus is spread the most easily while sores are present but the virus can be spread at other points too. There are some people that are going to notice things like:
- Itching
- Tingling
- Other sensations
They’ll feel these things before they ever get anything on their skin, called a prodromal symptom(s). What they do is warn that there could be the virus on the skin. Herpes can be spread through the time that the symptoms appear for the first time through the outbreak and until the area is completely healed and the skin is back to looking normal. Having any sexual contact at all during this time, oral, anal or vaginal is extremely risky during this time.
Can Herpes Be Transmitted Without Symptoms?
The simple answer is yes.
The people that don’t know they are infected are the ones that spread their virus between an outbreak and there are no signs or symptoms present. These are called asymptomatic transmissions. Most often they are spread through people that have no idea they’re even infected at all. The people could have symptoms but ones that are so mild that they have no notice to them at all or simply don’t recognize it as being herpes.
Almost all new infections of genital herpes are from those that are asymptomatic shedders of the herpes virus.
Are complications possible?
One of the kinds of complications comes from the virus spreading from the outbreak location to another place on the body through touching the sore. Things like your fingers, eyes and other body areas can become infected accidentally through this way. Infection prevention is easy though. Simply don’t touch the area through this outbreak period. If you touch an area that’s infected immediately wash your hands as the virus can be killed easily through using just soap and water.
Can herpes cause AIDS?
The herpes simplex virus, HSV1 or HSV2 isn’t related to the HIV virus in any way. Someone that carries the herpes virus though is more susceptible to infection with HIV though if they have sex with someone with the virus. Only in that way is someone with herpes likely to get HIV which is the cause of aids.
CAN HERPES BE SPREAD THROUTH MASTERBATION
Hi, I am very upset and scared
I had protected sex with a sex worker three weeks ago, two weeks after i developed a massive fever blister on my lip and I also developed redness just below my penis head. Went to the doctor and he said I have a urinary tract infection and Herpes. He also said that i needed to come for a HIV test at 3 months. We had sex 2 times in one hour and i want to know if it is possible that when the girl gave me a hand job after the first time we had sex, she could have passed on herpes to me. I am really really scared that i have HIV. I don't think the condom broke
Condoms aren't 100% against
Condoms aren't 100% against the spread of herpes. If she touched an infected area where she had herpes and then touched your genitals that would cause spread as spread happens from skin to skin contact. So you have the cold sore on your lip but just the urinary tract infection or you got genital and oral herpes? A little confused there. Also the HIV testing is just standard. Even though the condom didn't break the doctor still wants to test you for it. Anyone that's having sex without just one partner should get STD/HIV testing done every six months. I know you're scared and feel alone but you're not. Rely on those around you for support. If you don't feel comfortable doing that in real life there are plenty of online forums like this and others you can go to for support.
how likely is it to get herpes from oral
Hi, i just found out i am positive for genital herpes. My husband denys ever cheating on me, we have been together 9 years. How likely is it that he passed on his coldsores on his mouth to me? Is there a way of determining that?
I just got dumped cause he
I just got dumped cause he has enough "isues" without me being honest and telling him I have herpes, do the right thing and get dumped!
reply to missb and anonymous
Yes, most likely your husband passed his oral herpes during oral sex without knowing he was shedding the virus. That's how I contracted HSV-1 in the genital area. We are no longer married, but for reasons not related to herpes.
I am recently divorced and now dating for the first time with herpes. I did not have the virus before I married my ex husband. I also just got dumped because I was honest about having the virus and evidently he can't deal with it. I have done a lot of research in the last week on the virus, and now wish I hadn't told him. I will never tell another boyfriend again. Instead, I will wait until we are in a solid relationship and suggest going for an STD screen together. He has an approximate 80% chance of having it himself, especially since he was on the wrestling team in high school. I have discovered that the majority of the population has the virus. Most people were fortunate enough to acquire the virus as children as fever blisters. They are exempt from social stigma because it's called "fever blisters" instead of "herpes", even though it is the same virus. Also, a large portion of the population has the virus and never has symptoms, therefore never knowing they have the virus. I am so angry that the general public is educated incorrectly on this virus just to scare teenagers into not having sex. This virus should not be considered an STD for it can be contracted anywhere where there is skin to skin contact. When is the healthcare community and the CDC going to step up and make right by those of us unfortunate enough to acquire the virus as adults and now have to suffer the unnecessary social stigma?!
An enlightning article for your review: http://www.herpes.com/hsv1-2.html
herpes.com/hsv1-2.html
Lonely and Scared
I have been hanging out with a guy for a few months now. He knew up front i had herpes bc a friend had told him. At the time we met the guy had a girl friend and we were both completely honest with our feelings for one another to the girl. He told her he could see himself with me but wouldn't bc he didn't want to get herpes. The guy and his girlfriend are now completely broken up. Not just bc of me but bc they had problems way before me and it was just bound to happen. The guy has been staying the night at my house for the past two weeks, we mess around and have started to have sex a few times and he stops. I take valtrex daily and have no outbreaks but I tell him there is still always a chance that he could get it. He wont be with me because he cannot imagine waking up one morning with it and it scares him to death. I have never felt this way about anyone and don't know what to do. My last bf of 2 years gave it to me and this is the first person I have been interested in since that break-up.I have only had sex/messed around with 3 people and i'm 23. It hurts bc his ex gf tells everyone i'm dirty. The worst part is I don't want to date people bc. I am scared I will give it to them. I know how rejected I feel and the thought of him feeling that too or anyone else makes me so sad.
I know he has very strong feelings for me and I think I'm falling in love with him. Ive never had such a connection with someone and worry I wont find it again. He is the person i want to be with and im not pushing for a relationship right now bc i know he just got out of one and does hurt over that and my relationship ended 4 months ago too. I just don't know how to just be friends and neither does he.
I don't know what to do and don't want to mess up our "friendship" but i do love him as a person. I just feel rejected. Will he learn to get over this? Should I run? I want him in my life and I know he wants me in his. Can I just look past the fact that I want to be with him and just be his friend, because he is someone i could see myself having a lifelong friendship with.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
My advice is probably coming
My advice is probably coming far too late but i think you two need to still hang out and take it slow dont push sex on him and let him research this virus. A friend always tells me that when i met a guy that truelly loves me he wont run when i have to tell him about having herpes simplex one i try to listen to her knowing she is probably right. how ever like you i feel rejected its my worse fear right now that ill fall for a guy and i push most men away because i dont want to get hurt. i think this guy will stick around for you, you have already gotten past the worse part him finding out you have this virus and he hasnt run yet, that must say something about your twos relationship and friendship. i hope that it worked out for you two i read your post and cried because i have such similiar fears i had to respond even if its not read.
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